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REDEEMING LIVES. ONE LIFE AT A TIME. (Part 2)

ISRAEL - ONE STORY, ONE LIFE

 

I was born in India to a  family at Wadalla Station.  I was the 2nd of 3 sons.  My memories of my father were that he loved me very much.  He was a hard worker, but he also had a problem with alcohol and was diagnosed with tuberculosis.   When I was just 5 years old, my father died of tuberculosis and alcoholism.  After he died, that moment and that time in my home things were very hard for my family because there was no food, and no money.  The feeling was very desperate in my home and I decided to run away from my home.

I ran away and went to the VT train station (a very big train station in Mumbai), and I made some bad friends and they taught me how to use drugs, and about stealing and begging.  I did all kinds of bad things. I used to sleep in the street, and the begging money I used for drugs.  I ate food that was thrown in the garbage.

During those years on the street, it was not easy to live. There were many days that I was so hungry that I did not think I was going to make it.  There were times living in the street that young street boys would eat something similar to what you call white out.  It helped make your stomach not hurt so much from hunger and you would feel full, but it was not good for my body.  One time, I fell off of the top of a building running from someone, and broke my arm. Although I went to a free clinic, my arm did not heal properly and I still have trouble to this day with being able to lift things, and it causes me pain at different times throughout the year. I lived this way, just trying to survive, for 8 years on the streets of Mumbai.

One day, I met some people who operated a feeding van, and they asked me to come to their center. I said no, because many centers in India do bad things to children, both physical beating and sexual abuse and drugs.  The staff was aware of these problems and they told me their center was very different; that they would give me love, shelter, and a good education.  They asked me many times, and one day I said yes, I will try.  I went and stayed a year.  I ran away again from that center, and went back on the streets. Then God gave me a second chance.  They asked me to try again, and at fourteen, I came back and tried again. They kept their promises to me and I went to church, and I decided I am going to give my life to God. I felt God’s healing and His love, and I decided I am going to follow God.  I had lived on the streets for 8 years, and it was a very hard life.  God gave me a new life. He healed me.

I never dreamed I would come to the US.  But in 2010, God chose me to come to the US with a group from this organization .  I also never dreamed that God had a family waiting for me in Virginia.  I was totally surprised to be coming to the US, and one of His great blessings for me was putting me in the Walden family. When I went back to India, my American mom and I stayed in contact and Mom promised that when I finished my final exams, they would fly me back to the US to celebrate. I worked very hard for that. Mom came to visit me in India in late 2010. 

In the summer of 2012, I began the work on my passport and visa to be able to come back to the US after my exams in October. My visa/passport work was very hard work.  Traveling back and forth on the train, with the trains so crowded and hot was very difficult.  I also faced so many struggles with police officers regarding my passport, because of my  background, and because of the various verifications needed to establish my identity.   I was able to do it because God was with me.  Nothing is impossible in front of God.  I got my passport in October, and my visa on November 7, and flew to my Virginia home on November 8, 2012. My exams were a big miracle for me.  All the passport traveling left me little time to study.  The marks I received were a big accomplishment for me. It was the best I have ever done.  God did this because it was the first time in my whole life I got such marks.

I want to preach in my life.  Preaching for me is not worrying about what someone might say about me, behind me, or even in front of me.  I just preach what God wants me to say.  Preaching for me is a very strong calling, and is about faith, love and passion. I am very passionate about preaching.  I am going to preach like that from my heart. How can I preach?  All I want in my life is to preach.  It is not about saying good words as much as it is about your heart being clean. If you are going to be preaching, you need to be sure your heart is clean. Jesus died for us. That is what we preach. Same God, same words, no matter if it is for Indian or for American. What God asks you to preach, forget everything thing else and just do what He says. He is always there.

I talked about God giving me a new family in 2010, the Walden’s. They are why I have this opportunity to try to go University.   I am just thankful that God has given me a new family.  In my whole life, I never knew what a mother’s love is.  I lived on the streets for 8 years, so long, and I never knew a mother's love. Now I know what it is like to be loved by a mother.  I was not with any parents during those growing up years, and I never knew a parent's love.  So God chose for me a new family. God wanted to show me what is a family love, a mother's love, a father's love and brother love. He put me in the Walden family. My mother's name is Susie, my father's name is Andy. My brothers are Drew and Matt, and they have beautiful wives, Becca and Jessie.   My grandparents are Pop and Nini.  I have a wonderful, big family and I am very thankful. They give me everything I need and want.  They give me love like a CRAZY LOVE. The same way that God loves us, like a crazy man.  He died for us because He loved us.   It is very powerful for me the way my parents love me.  That is the second miracle that God showed me; that He is faithful and true.  He is showing His power to me by what he has done for me by giving me a family that is bigger than my dreams.

India may be a poor country, but it is not poor in front of God. I love India, it is my home country.  I plan to live my life in India after college.  I love my home country. Outside of India, the only places I want to visit are Israel (the country of my name) and Virginia, because my family is there. One of the most amazing things that has happened with my family is that in 2013, my mom and dad flew back to India with me, and they visited all the places with me that were the story of my life in India.  One of the places I used to beg all of the time was at the McDonald’s nearby the VT station. Mom and Dad went with me there and, for the first time, I went inside and bought a meal for everyone. 

My dream for my future is that I want to complete my biblical studies degree to become a pastor in India, and I want to work with children on the street helping them to find hope and a future for their lives. I thank this organization for saving my life and for keeping their promises to me about giving me love, shelter and a good education.

This is my story, Mom.  Love you.

Your son,

Israel

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A Note from Susie about the intersection of Israel in my life…

In 2010, I headed up the 2nd XChange4Life visit to our church and placed each of the 12 boys in individual homes with families in our church.  As I got the profiles and stories of each young man coming, I prayed about who would be God’s choice for placement in our home.  As I looked at Israel’s picture, I found myself drawn to the kindness in his eyes and smile.  And so, the journey of a lifetime began.  Israel spent 4 weeks in our home for the first part of their trip, and then another week at the end of their trip.  In that time, the only way to describe it is that we became family.  Israel’s English speaking was not strong that first trip, but God was greater.  We were able to communicate our hearts to one another, and by the time he left Virginia for India, we had a quiet understanding of hearts as mother and son.  I knew he had some work to do when he got back to India, finishing up his high school education.  My husband and I told him that when he passed his exams, we would fly him here for a celebration with his American family.  That process took 2 years.  In the meantime, I flew to India in 2010, and was able to spend some time with Israel again, and then it would be from November, 2010, until November, 2012, before I saw him face to face again.

In those two years, Israel was faithful to reach out every 2 weeks by phone, by facebook, by skype occasionally to us here in Virginia.  He never missed our birthdays, and was always praying for us. We also tried to be as faithful as possible to his special days, and birthdays and events in his life.  It is very difficult to be family from India to America, but we did our best. Israel says I was his English teacher, and it is true that his English dramatically improved by 2012!

When Israel’s visa came through in 2012, and he arrived in November, we were absolutely thrilled.  We have since discovered that Israel and I are so much alike in every way.  We think and react almost the same way to most any situation.  It is as if he was born to me, rather than an adoption of the heart.  We both talk very fast, we are not morning people, we love a party for any reason, we share a love for God that has allowed us to wait until God opened the doors for Israel to live with us.  Israel understands my heart for people and for ministry, and once he was in America, he very easily took his place in our family, as another son in our family.

He continued the work Sanjay started at Journey to Hope, and prayed with almost every single client that came to Journey to Hope between November, 2012, and February, 2013.  He continues to pray for those clients to this very day.  He participated in our small group and we had him preach every week, so he could practice his English and share his heart and love for Christ.  He also served with us every month at the New Generation Homeless Shelter, and even preached there before we served the meal.

Israel had a desire to have us walk the story of his life with him back in India, so it was a great privilege to return to India with him in February, 2013, and visit the places along the way of his growing up years, and years on the streets and at the different centers in Bombay Teen Challenge. We even served with him at the very same feeding van where as a 13 year old boy on the street, he came for food. We will never again be the same after walking this walk with him.

Since we have returned from India in 2013, we have been steadily working toward Israel’s future at University.  As far as we are concerned, our commitment to Israel will stand for a lifetime. We have bright hopes for his future and pray for God to use him to turn India upside down for Christ. Blessings, Susie 

OCTOBER 2013: SPECIAL FOCUS ON INDIA CONTINUES

In an effort to raise awareness and support of the amazing and life changing work being done in Mumbai, India for so many,

We will be featuring stories this month, one each week, of three whose lives were rescued , and who now have permanent residence in my heart, Sanjay, Israel, and Lakshmi. Last week we began the One Life, One Story series with the story of Sanjay. Thank you for your many positive responses to this series, and his story.

Tomorrow, look for the story of Israel, as we continue the One Life, One Story series. His story is also very powerful and gives you another look at a life rescued.

India and these beautiful children are now written on the walls of my heart, forever.

Blessings, Susie

Redeeming Lives. One Life at a Time.

Sanjay: One Story, One Life

This is my story.  I was born in the red light district of Mumbai on October 1st. My mother is from Nepal and was promised a job in Mumbai, but it was a trick. She was from a poor family and was only 14 years old.  She wanted to be able to earn some money for her family. When she arrived in Mumbai, the promised job was not what she was told, but was that of a sex worker.   She had me when she was very young, and then had my sister, Lakshmi, when I was 2 years old. I have no idea who my father was/is; I may never know.

My sister and I grew up in the red light district.  It was all we knew.  When my sister got to be about 6 years old, men were starting to notice her and my mom told me that she was going to have to send her away to a hostel, so that men could not touch her. However, because that would take all of her money, she told me she would have to send me away to live in the streets, because she could no longer take care of me. This was very hard for me.

I was 8 years old. I can remember it being monsoon season, and being too afraid to lay down on the streets to sleep, because I was afraid I might drown. So would sleep standing up.  I was so very hungry all the time, and so alone.

When I was eight years old I was staying on street, a Muslim family allowed me to stay with them, and the guy was a drug dealer and he was a sort of ‘don’  of that area and that man taught me how to sell the drugs and taught me how to deal with cops. They expected me to do this for them, so at the age of 8, I also started taking drugs; very heavy drugs.

I continued with my life this way on the street. Just  as I turned 18 I was put in a jail,  because I did half murder (I cut a man with a knife)  for 6 months and later on that Muslim family came and bailed me out. Then I again started sell their drugs and dealing with cops daily. Through the years, I saw many of my friends die because of an overdose of drugs.  Even then, my condition was also weak and that time Uncle j came and told me Jesus loves you and my reply was, “Go, man, do your work, but don’t bother me.” Uncle went and my condition was getting worse and worse due to drugs and then I contracted a disease called T.B and it was spread over 80% of my body. The doctor said to me that I did not have much time to live.

I felt there was no hope for me to live and I was really sick, and so I came to the center because there was no place else to go. As I lived there, I saw many people praying to God and I saw them and I was thinking they are making people Christian and I was not ready to accept it because all the time I spent with the Muslim family made me feel not sure about Christ.

Then one day everyone was watching the movie The Passion of the Christ and I also saw it. After the movie ended, I came to my room and said to God, “If you are really there and the living God, then please save me and I will trust you.”  That was my prayer.  After 6 months, I went for a medical checkup and something happened which was unbelievable.  All the doctors got shocked when they saw my report. They said it was a miracle, you do not have any kind of disease. Six months before TB was in 80% of my body and now it is not there at all. It is a miracle that happened. Hope came into my life then because of this and I got saved and then accepted the Christ.

I went to Bible College for 6 months in year 2010. Another opportunity to go to states in 2012 arrived, and I went as part of a worship team traveling through different cities in America and Spain.  One of the gifts God has given me is that I am a singer.  God gave me this voice that can sing almost anything.  I love worshiping and singing to God. 

Something amazing that happened is that I got a wonderful family there who take care of me so well. They are the Walden family. I used to love chocolate cake a lot there and Susie mom use to make chocolate cake every day (See Susie’s story about the chocolate cake).

Today I have only have one hope and that is to minister to and help rescue the people who suffered like me and in the red-light area.  I have a dream to be married and have children and to have my own shop in Badlapur and perhaps do some counseling, like my mom (Mom calls me Dr. Sanjay, because I always have good counseling for her).   I have learned to be patient, because I have had to wait for almost everything in my life.  I am still waiting, but I believe God has been faithful to me.  For so many years, for most of my life, I have felt so alone.  Now, with God, I am never alone. But also, my family that God gave me – they say we are family forever, and that I will never be alone again. God has been faithful to me like that.

love you mom this is my story

Your son,

Sanjay

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A Note from Susie about the Intersection of Sanjay in My Life

dated August 8, 2012:

Today, I wanted to share one of the most profound things that happened to me while the music team from was here. There have been so many more things than this one, but this one served to allow God to reach deep within my heart, and inspire and strengthen me in my life’s work.  I am forever grateful for this beautiful intersection of God, Journey to Hope, and Sanjay, and the collision of the ‘hurt and the healer’ in all of our lives.

There were many evenings during Sanjay’s stay in our home when I came home from a long day of counseling, and did my best to redeem the time with Sanjay. Sanjay said to me one evening, “Susie –Mom, you are smiling but your eyes are sad and burdened from your day’s work – I am praying for you.” Then he declared that on Monday, August 6th, he was going too fast and pray for my counseling, and was going to come with me to the office to continue to pray there throughout the day.  I thought¬….what a great idea…

On Sunday night, August 5th, he began his fast at 7:30 p.m. We woke up on Monday morning, and went in to the office. Because he is such a big guy, I knew I would have to introduce him as folks came in.  I decided to just say what he was doing, why he was there, and let God do the rest with my clients.  Many of my clients are believers, but many are also insurance clients, so they are coming to me first because I am a provider for their insurance more than because I am a Christian therapist. After I introduced Sanjay, I brought them in, we had our session, and at the end of each session, I expressed that Sanjay would like very much to pray over them in Hindi. Every single Monday client said yes! So, he came in and we had a time of Hindi prayer over every client.  It made for an amazing day in counseling for me.  Not just because he was there, but his mission and his determination to support the counseling ministry created something in the clients and in me.  It did not end there, either. 

I told Sanjay that I would take him to eat at any place for dinner Monday night. And he chose Guru and then chocolate cake, so we went and he had an Indian feast. As we were leaving, I asked Sanjay why chocolate cake? He said he has loved it since he lived on the streets.  There was a bakery in Mumbai that baked chocolate cakes, and if anything went wrong with a cake and they couldn’t sell it, they would put it on the edge of the trash, and Sanjay would eat it there.  When he said this to me, I knew that I was about to go home, no matter how tired I was, and make him the most amazing chocolate cake I have ever made!  And I did. And he ate nearly all of it.  So, I have made it my mission to keep him supplied with chocolate cake whenever possible!

Sanjay came in on Tuesday and prayed with my first two clients and came back on Wednesday and prayed for a client at his request.  I made a decision to invite every single client from our practice to their concert on Wednesday night, and the amazing thing is that 15 of them came.  Sanjay shared his testimony that night, and I walked him around to everyone who came to the concert.  This week, cards have come in to the office expressing thanks for caring enough to pray for them. God has proven himself to be so amazing in this matter. 

The difference that this made in my life is that it gave me such encouragement and strength in counseling.  There are days when my job is very heavy and sad, and heartbreaking.  For this week, I experienced the power of others praying with us and for those we are called to care for at Journey to Hope.  The verse that I have claimed for this experience is Exodus 17:10-12….”As long as Moses held up the staff in his hand, the Israelites had the advantage.  But whenever he dropped his hands, the Amelekites gained the advantage.  Moses’ arms soon become so tired he could no longer hold them up.  So Aaron and Hur found a stone for him to sit on.  Then they stood on each side of Moses, holding up his hands. So his hands held steady until sunset.”  I am so very thankful for Sanjay, being Aaron to the work of Journey to Hope during this week of counseling.   I have often said that while these precious souls do not have much in the way of material wealth, they have the confidence of their prayer life, and they wield it with authority and power.  Thanking God for all of them today. When they come, we want to bless them and love them in every way, and yet, everytime, the love and blessing they pour over me breaks me, humbles me, and draws me closer to Christ.  Who would have known that God was sending me much needed strength for my journey through this Sanjay – strength to raise my arms another day.  And another son. To God be the glory! Amen